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System message: Coolio changed topic to '謙虛 vs 直接'

how interesting

haha.. 接唔到添.... 可唔可以俾多少少事例呢?  謙虛 同 直接 好似係兩樣唔同既野咁既?  好似 蘋果 vs 橙 咁..

<好似 蘋果 vs 橙 咁>

重有士多啤梨, 啤梨...lol

我發現左一樣野!!   原來 "士多啤梨, 啤梨, 蘋果, 橙" 裡面既 "啤梨"，係指 pear 啤梨，我一直以為係 "士多啤梨" 既 echo!!  

oh sh_t, really? lol

i am just questioning if "謙虛" has turned into a "proper" social manner instead of an attitude in our so-called "thousands of years" Chinese culture.

while being "直接/speak your mind", often encounter criticism(s) among our own people and perceive as "show off", "full of yourself".

interesting enough, isn't it?

oh i see what you mean now!  It's like: if I think I am handsome, should I tell people that "I think I am quite handsome" or I should just be humble and say "nah, I am so so"?

western culture has no such thing right, instead, they will go over and give others a wrong impression that they were sooo good.