天水圍的夜與霧 is about the homicide case that happened in Tin Shui Wai in 2004.

It reminds us that women are to be treated with respect and love.
And being the man of the house needs to be responsible to provide, protect and love his family, not just the one who calls the shot around, gentlemen.

Reality is there're so many more 張靜初 & 任達華 in HK nowadays. They don't see future, or we so called dreams. If we run and run and run, the storm is always with us, we will lose the spirit of 'being' 何B所講的‘活著’

I am sure the story reflects just a "Tip of the Iceberg" of what goes on in HK, though it's an extreme case.

<Reality is there're so many more 張靜初 & 任達華 in HK nowadays.>
I partially disagree...張靜初 has her feet on the ground most of the time. except getting hooked up with 任達華 to begin with...

<we will lose the spirit of 'being' 何B所講的‘活著> can you elaborate on that?

你要知道香港人返大陸搵老婆﹐佢地好多條件較差﹐年紀較大又或性格有缺陷﹐又度 有些是在蒲點夜店中「邂逅」有了餡﹐形成他們對著大陸老婆自卑但又自以為優越
的歪思想。但除了在居留權問題和言語溝通(若是廣東人更少一重障礙上)﹐女方各方
面都不輸於他們的另一半。當佢地適應之後﹐問題顯現﹐出現家變只在乎大小或程
度而己!我在港表弟十二年前娶我內地的表弟婦﹐大小吵鬧無日無之。但總算雙方顧及
下一代﹐在我當社工的家姐悉心跟進下﹐才沒出亂子!戲中沒提及的另一炸彈﹐就是
港人奶奶與內地媳婦的嚴重分岐。婆媳相處已經是千年難決課題﹐更何況這種過埠新
娘!!

hmm...i see.

is it because of 部分香港人條件比較差﹐therefore 佢地返大陸搵老婆?

they really need to put "safe sex" into practice, man.

每人都有一個故事﹐但你都知近十來廿年‘港女’已經令好多港男生畏﹐更遑論追求。
又或者打過比喻﹐同一款貨品﹐係深圳買平過香港八成﹐仲有你可以選人不用人揀
你﹐將貨就價﹐消費如是﹐找伴也有呢種情形。大陸D阿媽亦唔會下下要你二十圍酒
廿萬禮金十擔餅。就算我呢面朋友們或客戶等﹐如果搵唔到佢地好多都返大陸娶﹔
其中一個朋友阿哥娶左個內地醫科畢業﹐過到黎讀到個學位仲拎到執業資格。八年
後的今天﹐佢老婆搵成六十萬美金一年﹐睇到人牙痕痕咁﹐呢個又係異數啦!

interesting

<阿媽亦唔會下下要你二十圍酒,廿萬禮金十擔餅.>  十擔餅要幾多錢ah?

yeah, someone i know here in the states, the mother-in-law never showed up to their wedding ceremony nor the banquet, simply due to the requested amount of 禮金 was not met, can you believe it in this day and age?....more like 賣女 than 嫁女....

去奇華餅家網站﹐十六款嫁女餅平均價八蚊美金一斤﹐一千斤(十擔)即八千﹐就算有
九折(婚紗展)都要七千。聖安娜餅咭大約六蚊張﹐如果又話要五百(至親要打孖送)﹐
再承惠三千。兩樣就要一萬落樓﹗﹗

<兩樣就要一萬落樓﹗> still affordable wor.
<二十圍酒,廿萬禮金十擔餅.> assuming 1G HK$ per table, still feasible. probably break even at the end with all the 人情s.
it's the 廿萬禮金, i have a problem with...廿炆禮金OK! lol

1G HK$ per table?? 食個四人和菜就差唔多﹐一千銀連魚肚羹燒味拼盤揚州炒飯都冇得食﹗

而一萬係美金唔係港紙﹐派左去冇機會收返個隻。如你係打工仔每月儲三千元﹐兩年後你都未夠錢派餅。

至於﹐你話break even﹐你知唔知D人隊酒、拎煙、飯前蟹肉伊麵絕對唔同你慳﹐茶芥乜Q都落單﹐睇黎你未係香港擺過酒喇﹗