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my parents no such thing.....my mom controls all the usage of the money from my dad's income since we still young...but we didn't see any problem on it....

I will .....suggest....don't use the word...."Control"....If 2 people really want to have a good family....we should use "discuss".....or willing/believe the another one can take care of the thing.

係囉, 我都唔明, 或者佢覺得我有足夠的保障啦!


咁當然係我找數啦!!


即係妳結緍係諗好晒要係男方身上攞到著數之類?

又唔可以咁講佢喎, 咁對佢好唔公平囉!!

或者咁講啦, 從一開始, 我地都無傾過錢的問題, 本身覺得一個家, 男方有能力, 由佢負責晒都好正常, 而事實佢都幫我找過數! 而且我講過, 集中用1個的錢, 另一個就儲起佢! 所以一路黎都係咁做, 基本上我地係無一個專用的聯名戶口, 我所有account 都加咗佢名. 只係無話入晒錢去同一個戶口咁啫

Morning.

flora, can your dad spend the money "controlled" by your mom just by telling her: "honey, I will buy a new iPad tonight when I think is a good deal." ?  Or your mom will say "no, I define what is good deal, not you." ?

egg, "集中用1個的錢, 另一個就儲起佢" ok 架喎! "你幫佢朋友找完數，之後佢收番錢自己袋" 都 ok 架喎! 我估個大前題係，你可唔可以洗 "佢啲錢" 如洗 "你自己錢" 先? 即係例如，你覺得目前經濟狀況係容許你買玩具嘅，佢可唔可以話唔俾呢? 佢唔俾嘅理由 你又同唔同意呢?  即係你之前明明計好哂覺得冇問題可以買，但佢個 standard 同你唔同，佢計另一條數你睇，咁你會唔會承認你之前係計錯，或者你願意調較自己 standard 去就佢呢? 如果會的話，咁都 ok 呀!

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